Looking back, I always knew I was gay, but there was a block, nurture wasblocking nature.”

‘No blacks or Asians’ on gay profiles... I don’t buy that “it’s a preference” nonsense. We all have a preference. If you are not interested, simply don’t respond, but to put that energy out there that a race is not desirable is caustic.

That idea of being into black guys is a major turn off for me. I understand you might find a race hot, but it’s not hot to be someone’s fetish.